The quiz I did was "friendship personality", it has 10 questions, and all are very closed to everyday life, such as " how would you celebrate your friend's birthday?" and so on. It even has a 4.8 rate voted be more than 1,000 users, which makes it more trustworthy. Also, I like the brief description on this quiz: "Everyone has a different friendship style. Are you a genuine, caring or fun friend? Discovering your role in each friendship can be an enlightening experience, and learning more about yourself can also help you become a better person." Thus I can foresee the purpose and usage of this quiz, and hopefully I may adjust my friendship personality to a better one and help out more friends.
Here comes my result: "You are a Thoughtful Friend
Your friends can count on you to make them feel special. You are considerate of everyone's feelings and want to make sure your friends enjoy the friendship as much as you do. Don't be afraid to stand up to your friends once in a while and tell them what you want to do and don't always allow your friends to have their way because this will just create an uneven balance in the friendship. Try to even up the friendship a bit by allowing a little more give-and-take." Regards to the first two sentences, I believe it is true for anyone; after all, who doesn't want their friends to enjoy this friendship? Over all, I agree pretty much of the result. I do try my best just to make my friends happy and strengthen our invincible friendship. However, I rarely notice that I am often the "listener" or the "advisor" rather than a talky one; I keep my worries to myself sometimes. I'm not sure if that creates an unbalance in my friendship, because as long as my friends like to discuss their thoughts with me, I am more willing to accept any of that to solidify our friendship.
That's a pretty thorough post. You're the only person (so far) to mention "adjusting" your personality to try and make friends more readily: interesting.
ReplyDeleteYou used "closed" where you meant to say "close".